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Dec
28

First visit to a Mistress

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John Updike once referenced ‘a discord of unspoken expectations’. How should you avoid it, when seeing Pro-Domme? Well, try washing and using a deodorant.

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First visit to a Mistress

A Decade of Decadence – Club Rub’s Tenth Birthday Party Club Rub does fun fetish better than anywhere else.Ten years on and it’s still rammed, raunchy and extremely RUDE.  The Club’s deserved success is a combination of a loyal, lively crowd and attractive hostess Kim’s people and party skills, (plus pulchritude). Check out  her amusing & informative newsletter at http://www.club-rub.com.

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Club Rub. Does Rub stand for rubber or right up yer bum? The debate continues.

Dear BDSM Bad Advice, I recently started going to munches with a male friend of mine. However, based on my experience at my first munch last week, I think that the hosts of the munch are doing it all wrong and I think I would do a better job

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I don’t like how the munch is being run.

Nov
16

David Beckham: Prince Albert Piercing?

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Popbitch.com has been insinuating that Metrosexual God David Beckham may have a genital piercing, this might be the intimate detail some sex worker or other can identify. In a case we won’t be able to read about because of an injunction.

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David Beckham: Prince Albert Piercing?

Dear BDSM Bad Advice, I’m a bisexual woman and I just turned 18 last week. I think I’ve always been interested in BDSM.

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BDSMBadAdvice: How should I act at my first play party?

Oct
22

BDSMBadAdvice: How do I earn my leather?

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Dear BDSMBadAdvice, I have long been interested in Leather but I only recently worked up the nerve to do anything about it. So I went to my city’s biggest leather store last week and bought over $2000 worth of leather items. Last night, I proudly wore all my shiny new leather to a local leather bar

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BDSMBadAdvice: How do I earn my leather?

Dear BDSMBadAdvice, Months ago, I agreed to help my friend with her play piercing class. She anticipated a very large turnout and wanted another experienced piercing top to assist participants.

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BDSMBadAdvice: Should I pierce people when I’m sick?

Oct
18

Ask Patrick: Don’t upset the baby

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Patrick: I was shocked and upset by your column about the married couple who were fighting about the husband’s involvement in adult baby activities. You stereotyped this fantasy as ‚”fetish‚” and pathologized it by saying it was the result of unmet developmental needs during early childhood

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Ask Patrick: Don’t upset the baby

Dear Patrick: I am a slave girl who is owned by two masters. I should say ‚”was owned‚” because they are breaking up. The house is going to be sold, and they will use the proceeds to go their separate ways.

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ASK PATRICK: In BDSM, Slave chooses Master, not the other way around

Dear BDSMBadAdvice, Can you tell me how to become a kink educator? Lee Harrington Dear Lee, First, I recommend that you move to San Francisco. Kink education is the foundation of the city’s economy.

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BDSMBadAdvice: How do I become a kink educator?